Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Mother's Day

Mother's Day was especially meaningful for me this year, not only because it's my inaugural year, but recent events have reminded me of how lucky I am. We have close friends that lost their unborn child at 23 weeks. As I reflect on this past year (Sy will be one at the end of this month!), I cannot help but to be overwhelmed and grateful for the role that I have been given. I am thankful to have a healthy and thriving child in our home. While I have struggled in transitioning from the work environment, I have loved spending time with Sy and have learned so much about myself through my interactions with him. I never realized my selfcenteredness until I was needed by someone else 24 hours a day. Our lives have changed dramatically and it is for the better.

For my first Mother's Day, Ben felt it necessary that we celebrate throughout the weekend. After taking a group of students bird-watching on Saturday, he donned the captain's hat and sent me on my way...to a massage. It was a fabulous surprise and a much needed luxury. Upon my return, Ben was adamant that he would take over all my responsibilities for the weekend. It was an offer that I could not refuse! He cooked meals, cleaned the house, took care of Sy and even accomplished some laundry. It was a wonderful day! Although he assists me daily with these tasks, I was completely free of any resonsibilities for 2 full days. He truly expressed his love through his acts of service throughout the weekend. On Sunday, we celebrated Mother's Day by hiking to Avalanche Lake at Glacier National Park.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Winner, winner, chicken dinner...

We are officially bipedal now. Yesterday, Sy started taking consecutive steps. It was only ten at first, but it has been exciting to see him gain his confidence. He even walked on cue for Ben when he got home. I was moved by Ben's tears as he watched his son walk to him from the other side of the kitchen. Today, he has taken 25 steps, even throwing in a circle here and there. While I have enjoyed seeing Sy's milestones, I have equally appreciated seeing Ben grow in his role as a father. I am truly blessed to have such wonderful males in my life--both who have equally captured my heart. I am a proud mom/wife and feel like I have won the lottery. Winner, winner, chicken dinner...life couldn't be better.